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Grammy: Dating late Oba’s wife Dami ruined my destiny, says Portable
Nigerian singer and entertainer, Habeeb Okikiola, popularly known as Portable, has blamed his misfortunes and inability to win Grammy on his ex-lover, Dami, a former wife of the late Alaafin of Oyo, Lamidi Adeyemi.
In a recent Instagram live interview with internet personality Daddy Freeze, the controversial singer detailed his relationship fallout with Dami and its impact on his family life and career.
Lamenting his travails during his two-year relationship with the late traditional ruler’s wife, the singer, who scored a feature on British rapper Skepta’s “Tony Montana,” claimed that she was one of the reasons he had not been recognised on the global music scene.
He said, ‘‘She is one of the reasons I don’t have a Grammy award, considering how much effort I put into my music. She was not loyal and had sexual relations with other men when we dated. Usually, if I date a woman who is faithful to me, I will cash out, but if she frolics or has sexual relationships with other men, I will retrogress. I would have won a Grammy by now if she hadn’t been in my life.
“I prayed to Ifa. I was told to say that anything blocking my way, whether a woman or a man I accommodated, that hinders my progress, should leave me. Can’t you see that girl has run away? She’s gone with her problems. She’s one of the reasons I haven’t won a Grammy Award.’’
Speaking in Yoruba, Portable also accused Dami of betraying his trust, meddling in his marriage, and spreading private information, leading to turmoil in his home.
The singer said, “My wife didn’t even know I had her as a girlfriend before. She was the one who befriended my wife. She took her number just to be friends. Then she turned around and spoke badly of me in front of them. Before she came into my life, my life was private. Now, it’s public, so the bloggers keep posting about me.
“If I tell my wife I’m going to Lekki to hustle, and if I enter Dami’s house, she records me and sends it to my wife. She goes to my wife’s house, mingles with her, and causes problems in my home. A house that is broken can’t be lived in. I took her phone and saw how she sends texts to secretly different people. She’s an online pervert and sleeps around.”
Portable also explained that he strives to present himself as a responsible man and father, contrary to public perceptions.
He said, “I am a responsible man. I take care of my home and hold myself accountable for who I am today because of who I aspire to be tomorrow. I am neither a scammer nor a ‘Yahoo boy’ (Internet fraudster). I am a hustler, and I make a living through music. I hustle, but it is the woman who spends it. And for the woman we spend on—first, she has to bear children for us because children are our future. Even if she hasn’t had children for me—since I kept her at home, she should stay there and remain loyal. What’s in the past is in the past. Old things have passed away.”
He also accused Dami of causing strife in his family, competing with his wife, and stealing from him despite his support for her child, whom he claimed to care for more than her.
“I opened a celebrity bar, and Dami chased away up to 10 girls from my bar. Any girl she saw around me, she drove them away. She said she wanted to be the last wife, but she hasn’t given me a child.
“My wife isn’t happy because Dami is trying to ruin her source of livelihood, which is me. Dami goes to my wife and tells her bad things about me, which causes fights between us. Despite everything that has happened, my wife still shows love to me,” he stated.
“Dami is very competitive with my wife. She even ran away with my generator and television. I knew Dami had a child (for Alaafin of Oyo), and I was caring for him. The Alaafin of Oyo will forgive me because I’ve been caring for the child. The truth is, I don’t like Dami; it’s the child I care about.”
Portable further said that he used spiritual means to control her, adding that their relationship exposed shocking details about her past, which led him to end things.
“I don’t engage with a woman without doing some checks. I am a king and a Babalawo (native doctor). I follow Ifa; I don’t engage with women carelessly. She was a fan who became a lover. I collected her phone and couldn’t reveal the secrets I saw because Nigeria would be in shock. I saw different musicians and roadside men sleeping with her. So I told her not to worry and said, ‘If you don’t fear anyone, you’ll fear me.’ I used jazz on her. It wasn’t until I said I was no longer interested that she left,” Portable stated.
Concluding the interview with an apology to the late Alaafin of Oyo and his palace, he said, “Everybody should forgive me, including the Alaafin of Oyo. Please forgive me if I have said anything bad about the palace or the late Alaafin.”
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Fubara presents staff of office to new Opobo king as monarch pledges to unite community
Photo caption: Governor of Rivers State, His Excellency, Sir Siminalayi Fubara (right) presenting the Staff of Office to His Majesty King Charles Douglas Mac-Pepple Jaja Jeki VI (left),the newly crowned Amanyanabo of Opobo Kingdom at Government House Port Harcourt on Friday.
Governor of Rivers State , His Excellency, Sir Siminalayi Fubara, on Friday formally presented the Certificate of Recognition and Staff of Office to the new Amanyanabo of Opobo Kingdom, His Majesty King Charles Douglas Mac-Pepple Jaja, Jeki VI, urging the new monarch to promote peace, unity and inclusiveness in the kingdom.
The governor while congratulating the new monarch, for successfully scaling the hurdles of selection and coronation, urged the royal father to see contenders who lost out of the selection process, not as victims but as comrades who must be carried along for the kingdom to move forward during his reign.
Speaking during the presentation ceremony in Government House, Port Harcourt, Governor Fubara apologized for his absence at the coronation, explaining that it was due to a call to higher national service, but that his spirit and soul were fully with the kingdom throughout the process.
He declared that history will remember his administration for peacefully laying to rest the late King, Douglas Dandeson Jaja, and mid-wifing the emergence of a new monarch without litigation.
The Governor, who said he remains one of the proudest persons on earth for the success of the transition, disclosed that the late king’s stool was enmeshed in a legal battle that lasted over 27 years, and that it took the wisdom and deliberate intervention of his administration to manage the selection process to avoid another round of court cases.
He emphasized that contrary to insinuations by mischief makers who tried to politicise his absence, his government was fully responsible for the entire process from burial of the late king to the coronation and recognition.
“Our presence was not just in that process alone. Every logistics that were required, there is nobody that can say he’s the one that did it. We did it. So, that is also a key issue in the process. So, for those people who like using everything for politics, my absence was not an intentional thing; it was a call to service. So the fact that I was unable to make it doesn’t mean that I do not value, appreciate or support the process,” Governor Fubara said.
He said the true test of kingship is in the management of success, and prayed that the new reign will usher in greater development in education, healthcare and small businesses, which he said remain the only sustainable antidotes to the growing criminality among youths.
The Governor, who described Opobo as one of the most peaceful Local Government Areas in the State, charged the new king to maintain zero tolerance for criminality, to be intentional and decisive in protecting the kingdom, and not to compromise on security on the grounds of kinship.
Governor Fubara assured the monarch of the continuous support of his administration both in and out of office, while also charging the Alapu Council to guide the king and the titled citizens to redirect their purpose from mere ceremonial uniformity to initiating tangible development projects that will be visible in the kingdom within the next one year.
In an acceptance speech, the newly installed Amanyanabo of Opobo Kingdom, His Majesty King Jaja Jeki VI, pledged to build Opobo on the pillars of service, inclusion and vision, in honour of the legacy of the great King Jaja who founded the kingdom 156 years ago with trade and diplomacy.
Describing the Staff of Office as more than a symbol of authority, the monarch said it represents a sacred trust from the government and people of Rivers State to lead with justice, peace and dignity.
In a statement, Onwuka Nzechi, Chief Press Secretary to Governor Fubara, quoted the monarch to have expressed deep gratitude to God, the ancestors, Governor Fubara, the Opobo Council of Alapu, titled citizens, elders, women and youths for the confidence reposed in him to lead Opobo into its Sixth Chapter.
The new king assured the Rivers State Government that under his reign, Opobo Kingdom will remain a dependable partner for peace, development and unity of Rivers State.
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Gunmen abduct 20 NYSC members in Imo
Gunmen have abducted 20 corps members serving under the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) along the Owerri–Onitsha Road by Umunoha community in the Mbaitoli, Imo State, South East Nigeria.
Confirming the unfortunate incident, in a telephone conversation, the Police Public Relations Officer of the Imo State Police Command, Henry Okoye, said the corps members were reportedly travelling in a commercial bus from Ibadan, Oyo State, to different orientation camps in the South-East and South-South states when they were intercepted by the gunmen.
He said the Commissioner of Police, Audu Bosso, visited the scene for an on-the-spot assessment, while the police and other security agencies have intensified efforts to rescue the victims unhurt and unconditionally.
Okoye added that security operatives were currently combing surrounding bushes, while a Rapid Response Team (RRT) had also been deployed to track down the kidnappers and secure the safe release of the corps members.
The incident came weeks after the police said that 11 people, including an unidentified number of corps members serving under the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), were rescued after gunmen attacked vehicles along the Aloma–Egane Expressway.
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Ex Air Peace staff praises Allen Onyena’s exceptional leadership, benevolence
A former employee of Air Peace, who simply identified herself as Tade, has made a social media post on her recent encounter with the Chairman/CEO of the airline, Dr. Allen Onyena and praised him for his exceptional goodwill, benevolence and kind word of encouragement.
Tade who said she resined from Air Peace last year to set up a fashion outfit, after receiving blessings from Allen Onyena, quoted the airline’s CEO to have commended her for establishing her own business, said the encounter took place on Wednesday when the Air Peace boss paid a visit to her business premises
The obviously excited lady said- “It was such a beautiful moment having my boss visit my factory. And honestly, I still struggle to call him my former boss. Some people may be former bosses by designation, but the place they occupy in your life does not change simply because you no longer work in the same organisation.
“Two days ago, when he told me he wanted to come see the factory, I honestly wondered if he would be able to make it. I had seen how incredibly busy his schedule was, meetings, guests, engagements, one thing after another, and some of those meetings stretched well into yesterday evening.
“But around 7pm, after what I can only imagine was an incredibly long and stressful day, he still came.
“And he didn’t just come in, take a quick look around and leave. The entire house came alive.
“We received him warmly, and his presence brought such a beautiful energy into the building. He took time to speak with the staff, interacted with my friend, Mr. Jire, and his wife about their business, and then came into my office and sat with me.
“And for a while, it was just my boss being my boss.
“We talked about entrepreneurship, people management, business management, governance, leadership, and the challenges that come with growing a business, including some of the challenges I cannot even see yet. He reminded me, in his own way, that growth does not mean the challenges stop. They simply change.
“And then came that moment:
“You are now an employer of labour yourself, Tadé.”
She continued – “I don’t think he knows what those words meant to me. October will make it a year since I resigned from Air Peace and left with his blessing.
“And here I was yesterday, almost a year later, standing in my own factory, surrounded by people who now work for the fashion company I am building, while the man I once reported to was standing there looking at what has grown from that decision.
“There was something deeply emotional about it. Because when I met this man in 2023, I could not have known all that the years ahead would hold.
“Meeting you, sir, and working with you was never a coincidence. It was a necessary chapter in my life. A needed season. A significant part of the journey that brought me here. And I will always cherish it.
“Thank you, sir, for your leadership. Thank you for the opportunities, the lessons, the corrections, the wisdom, and most especially, for your consistent belief in me.
“Thank you for showing up. And thank you for coming to see what that little girl who once worked with you is building today. It meant more to me than I can properly put into words.
“And on behalf of the entire TADÉ house, thank you for the generous gift. We are deeply grateful.
“Some moments are bigger than the moment itself. Yesterday was one of them.,” she concluded.
All pictures were taken in the moment
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